What Kidney Stones Again!

I could scream right now. Not only have I dealt with kidney stones since 1995! Yes 14 years and counting. The only thing I know for sure is that I have seen some of the best doctors in Dallas, but not one has ever given me a RX to stop the madness. Along the way I have learned when it happens, what to do and not do. Most of the time I can pass most on my own up to 5mm was the last one on June 16, but this one is not moving fast. When I went to the doctor last week I was given Flonax, so when i got home I took one. I had already taken 2 pain pills to get home from work, which is an 45 minute drive. I got in a hot tube and relaxed enough to have a  thought. As I relax for the moment I just wonder who else deals with this pain in the side as I do. Are there any answers or cures?